RIP Kiwi..

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Bella and Charlie had a lesson in the fragility of life this week when one of their much loved dwarf hamsters, Kiwi died.

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I think as a parent part of the reason you agree to pets is to open that door to the experience of the circle of life: To love something, be totally involved…and then to lose it…death is the bleakness lurking in the shadows..it’s the moment the clouds close over the sun..

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They decorated the coffin, layered it with love..and Charlie wrote a poem..

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We did a funeral service..I sang (probably not the highlight) but I’m hoping this experience will give them something to remember when something more serious inevitably happens. Β It makes you sadly realise how jaded you become as a adult – and how the innocence of childhood needs to be treasured: Little things do matter.

Laters, Kate x

3 comments

  1. happyface313's avatar
    happyface313

    πŸ™‚ This is such a lovely way of saying good bye to their beloved little pet. It’s important that children learn to deal with the facts of life, but in a very gentle way. After all, it’s very had for them.
    My younger sister always had a little canary bird. I recall that when one of them died the bird was buried in a very pretty watch box and my mom did something similar you have done.
    Hope your kids are fine?
    Have a very HAPPY week .-)

  2. KerryCan's avatar
    KerryCan

    What a good, gentle way to guide the kids through this. And, you’re right, it’s something we all need to face and come back from.